Four Kisses You Must Master

We know what you’re thinking. A kiss? Big whoop. You’ve had your mouth-to-mouth MO nailed since junior high. But what you might not have realized is that by customizing your lip-locking to the occasion, you can actually take your necking up a notch. "Even the best kissers can add bewildering power," explains Shelley Hess, author of Pucker Power: Great Kissers Make Great Lovers. "The secret is knowing what kind of kiss the situation calls for and then switching your moves accordingly."

Cosmo presents four crucial kisses and the accompanying lip tricks that’ll have him spellbound from the moment you meet to "See ya" … and every second in between.

The Hot Hello

The quick "Hi, honey" peck is no way to rebond with your babe, whether you’ve been missing him since your morning bagel or last Saturday night. Set the tone for your time together with a kiss that makes him think, Oh you are happy to see me. "Greet your guy with enthusiasm and he’ll immediately feel loved and appreciated," explains Linda Olson, Ph.D., host of the syndicated radio show America’s Love Doctor. "A high-energy hello smooch is the ultimate way to communicate that excitement and foreshadow the fun to come." Plus, when he kisses you back with the same degree of desire, you’ll feel that love rush too.

The hot hello actually starts long before your lips meet. Let’s set the scene: You see your guy. Maybe he’s working his way across the bar, maybe he’s standing on your doorstep. You lock eyes, flash him a smile, and slowly begin your approach, maintaining eye contact the whole way. When he’s in close range, utter a husky "Hey there, gorgeous" and press your body up against his. This is key for creating intimacy: You don’t want to strike the disastrous A-frame pose (think lips together, hips miles apart), according to William Cane, kissing coach and author of The Art of Kissing.

Okay, bodies meshed? Roger that. Now it’s time to pucker up, baby. Wrap your hand around the nape of his neck and pull his face gently toward you. When your mouths finally meet, maintain a strong but closed-lip seal for up to 10 sultry seconds.

Tip: Keep your tongue reined in; this kiss should shoot straight from the lip. Hey, there’ll be plenty of time for tongue twisting at the end of the night — keep him in anticipation of what’s to come as you pull away.

The Movie-Star Make-Out

Ever have one of those omigod-we’re-so-in-love-moments with your guy? You know: You’re gazing into each other’s eyes. Time stands still. You swear you hear music building in the background. That’s where we’re going with this Hollywood-style hookup. "When a couple is feeling that paralyzing surge of passion, words just get in the way," says Liz H. Kelly, dating couch and author of Smart Man Hunting. "Instead of trying to explain that you wish you could devour him whole, give him everything you’ve got with an over-the-top doozy of a smooch." Warning: Since you can’t contain chemistry of this magnitude, this make-out sesh can happen anytime, anywhere, but you’ll be too busy luxuriating in the lip-lock to notice the spectators gathering.

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What peoples say……

Some peoples says they love rain, but when it rains, they use umbrella

Some peoples says they love sun, but when sun shines they search for shade

Some peoples says they love wind but when it blows they close windows

That’s why I get scared, When peoples says they love me.

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THE WOLF AND THE SEVEN KIDS

THE WOLF AND THE SEVEN KIDS

 

Once upon a time . . . a Mother Goat lived in a pretty little house with her seven kids. Mother often had to leave home to do the shopping, and on that fateful day, she had given her children the usual warnings, before setting off to market.

 

   "You mustn’t open the door to anyone. Don’t forget, there’s a wicked wolf

lurking about here. It’s black, with horrible paws and a nasty deep voice. If

it knocks, keep the door tightly shut!" Mother Goat’s words were wise indeed,

for as she was telling one of her neighbors’ about her fears, the wolf

disguised as a peasant was hiding close by, listening to every word.

   "Good! Very good!" said the wolf to himself."If the goat goes market, I’II

drop by her house and gobble the kids!’ Then,trying not to look too

conspicuous, the wolf hurried along to the goat’s house. There, he threw off

his disguise. He then growled in a deep voice: "Open the door! Open the door!

It’s Mother! I’ve just come back from market! Open the door!" When the kids

heard the deep voice, they remembered their mother’s warning. From behind the

barred door, they said to the wolf: "We know who you are! You’re the wolf! Our

mother has a sweet gentle voice, not a deep nasty one like yours! Go away!

We’ll never open the door to you!"

   And though the wolf banged furiously on the door, the kids, though

trembling with terror, refused to let him into the house, and so the door

remained shut. Then the wolf had a brainwave. He dashed off to the baker’s and

got a big cake dripping with honey. He hoped this would sweeten his voice. And

in fact, after eating it, his voice didn’t sound quite so deep. Over and over

again, he practiced imitating Mother Goat’s voice. You see, he’d heard it in

the woods. When he felt certain he could easily be mistaken for Mother Goat

herself, he rushed back to the house and the seven kids.

   "Open the door! Open the door! It’s Mother! I’ve just come back from

market! Open the door!" he called. This time, the kids had doubts: the voice

did rather sound like mother’s, and they were about to unlock the door, when

the black kid suspiciously cried: "Mother, let us see your foot!" Without

thinking, the wolf raised a black hairy paw. And the kids knew that the wolf

had come back.

   "You’re not our mother! She doesn’t have horrid black paws!" cried the

kids. "Go away, you wicked wolf!"

   And once more, in spite of all his hard work, the wolf found the door

locked against him. The wolf ran down to the mlll, and found a sack of flour.

He thrust his paws into it until they were pure white.

   "I’ll trick them this time," he said. "Mmm! My mouth’s watering already!

I’m hungry! My tummy’s empty and my trousers are falling off! I’ll swallow

these tender kids whole!" Again he knocked on the door.

   "Open the door! Open the door! It’s Mother! I’ve just come back from

market! Open the door!" The voice seemed exactly like mother’s, but the wary

kids quickly called out: "Mother, let us see your foot!" The wily wolf lifted

a snow white paw, and the kids, now reassured, threw open the door. What a

shock they received! An enormous set of jaws with sharp fangs growled

fiercely. Cruel claws reached out for their prey. The kids scattered in

terror. One dived under the table, while other crawled below the bed. Another

kid hid in the cupboard and one tried to hide in the oven, though the stove

was still hot. One kid crouched inside a barrel and one hid in the grandfather

clock. There he huddled, holding his breath, as the wolf hunted down his

brothers. One by one, the kids were pulled from their hiding places. All

except for the kid in the clock. The wicked wolf’s appetite did not pass until

he had found them and swallowed each in a single gulp.

   The only one to escape was the little black kid, for the wolf never

imagined that there was room for a kid inside the very narrow grandfather

clock. In the meantime, Mother Goat had really come back from market.  When,

from a distance, she noticed that the door was ajar, she rushed home, her

heart in her mouth. She had a sinking feeling: what she feared had really

happened. The wicked wolf had gobbled up all her children. She dropped into a

chair, sobbing bitterly, but as she cried, the door of the grandfather clock

swung open and out ran the black kid.

   "Mummy! Mummy!" wept the kid. "It was terrible! The wolf came, and I think

he’s eaten all my brothers!"

   "My poor child!" sobbed Mother Goat. "You’re the only one left! That evil

brute has gobbled them all!"

   Not long after, Mother Goat and her son left the house to take a stroll in

the garden. Suddenly, she heard a low wheezing sound: someone was snoring

heavily. It was the greedy wolf. His feast of kids had been too much for him

and he was fast asleep, dead to the world. In a flash, Mother Goat had a

brainwave. She said to her son: "Run and fetch me a needle and thread and a

pair of scissors!" With these, she swiftly slit open the wolf’s stomach. As

she had hoped, the ravenous brute had swallowed every kid whole. There they

were all stlll alive alive inside his tummy. One by one, out they popped from

the wolf’s tummy.

   "Hurry! Hurry! Not a sound! We must get away before he wakens up! Wait!

Fetch me a heap of stones!" And so they filled the wolf’s stomach with stones

and stitched it up again. The wolf woke later with a raging thirst.

   "What a heavy tummy I have!" he said. "I’ve eaten too much! All these

kids!" But when he went down the river to drink, his tummy full of stones

tipped him over and he fell into the water. The weight took him straight to

the bottom, and the goat and her kids shrieked with joy as he sank. The

wicked wolf was dead and the kids trotted home happily with Mother.

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Basic tips for Men’s Hair

Most men usually think that their hair are fine the way they are and hair care is something for women only. However, men have to take care of their hair as much as women do. In fact, sometimes they have to take care more because if they have dandruff that can be really embarrassing with short hair.

Following are some of the basic tips that all men should follow.

Pat Dry
Towel drying is one of the biggest causes of damage to men’s hair. When hair is wet, it is highly susceptible to damage. When the hair is rubbed with a towel, some of the hairs become tangled in the threads of the towel and become stretched to the breaking point, causing damage to the cuticle (the shingle-like outer layer of the hair), fizziness, and split ends. To properly towel dry, shake out the excess water and stroke your hair in the direction it grows, rather than rubbing the hair with the towel. Drying takes a bit longer this way but after a few haircuts, you’ll notice the difference in the way your hair looks. Blow drying is also a common cause of damage to the hair. Excessive blow drying can dry out the hair and scalp. If you must use a blow dryer, apply a thermal styling spray or detangler to coat the hair and protect it from damage, use a wide-tooth comb to prevent pulling, and always leave the hair slightly damp. This will prevent over drying the hair.

Cool Off
Nothing feels better than a piping hot shower, but it’s wreaking havoc on your hair and scalp. Very hot water strips too much of the essential oil from the hair and scalp and leads to dryness.

Avoid Chemical Treatments
Repeatedly coloring or perming hair can leave it damaged, dry, and dull. I recommend avoiding at-home chemical products and seek a good stylist for such services. A stylist will know how to properly prepare you hair and choose the best products for your hair type. Results from a trained professional will almost always look more natural than those which can be produced at home.

Use a Good Shampoo and Conditioner
A good shampoo and conditioner will help cleanse the hair, add moisture and elasticity, and smooth the cuticle to add shine.

Use the Right Tools
Don’t use a brush on wet hair, when the hair is most vulnerable. When combing through wet hair, use a wide-toothed comb and gently work out any tangles. Avoid heated tools such as blow dryers or irons which can dry and damage hair.

Stay Healthy
The condition of your hair is often a reflection of the overall health of your body. Eat well, exercise, drink plenty of water, get enough sleep, and reduce stress in your life. Doing so will result in a healthier scalp and great looking hair. Living well and staying healthy will also increase the rate of hair growth.

Avoid Tight Hats
A tight hat (or ponytail) can cause “traction alopecia,” a condition in which hair is pulled out of the scalp. If worn long enough, the damage can become permanent. A tight hat or ponytail can also cause damage to the cuticle and breakage.

Keep it Trimmed
Since the only real way to remove damaged hair is to cut off the damaged section, keeping your hair trimmed regularly will help eliminate split ends. Even if you’re growing your hair out, make sure to get it trimmed about every six weeks, but make it clear to your barber or stylist that you only want enough hair removed to eliminate the damage.

Reduce Frizz
Low moisture and protein in the hair can cause frizz. To minimize this problem, use a good moisturizing conditioner. A slick, smoothing serum can be applied to add shine and give the hair a smoother appearance.

Maintain a Healthy Scalp
Hair starts from the scalp, so for hair that’s sleek, strong, and shiny, make sure you take good care of your scalp by following our Scalp Care Tips.

Since hair is such a big part of your appearance, keeping it well maintained will make you more attractive.

 

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Humain Pyaar Hua…. Humain yaad Nahi

Kab hui Pyaar ki Barsaat Humain Yaad Nahi

Khauf main doobi mulakat humain yaad nahi

Hum tu madhosh thay kuch itna oski chahat main

Us ne kab chor diya sath, hume yaad nahi

Zindagi Jabr-e-musalsal ki tarha guzri hai

Jane kis jurm ki saza pai hai humain yaad nahi

Main ne palkon se dar-e-yaar par dastak di hai

Main wo sail hoon jisay koi sada yaad nahi

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Teri Yaad Main…

Teri yaad main ki hai main ne samundaron se dosti

Mujhe phir bhi tere lafzoon ki pyaas hai

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