Up till now we have been sharing tips for personal growth in specific trails, but now let us share some general tips for personal growth. Although we all like to enhance or personal growth but down the road we reach at a position where we lose our concentration and de track. So here are some tips to get back on track.
Growth Continues, keep growing
Although growth process continuous and remains active, but apparently, it looks like that growth is stagnant. In such a case, keep on struggling to achieve more.
Be Process-oriented, not result-oriented
We all live in a result-oriented world and it is difficult to think otherwise. But in order to develop your personality in the long run it is better that you should yourself, and be process-oriented. Remember that as you engage yourself in the process and relinquish your obsession with result, and the results will occur spontaneously, easily.
Work one thing at a time
Although high achievers believe in parallel proceeding or working on different areas at one time extend they succeed, but it is not possible for every one. If you feel and believe that you can work on different areas at a same time then it is fine, otherwise, it is better that you take them one by one. Multi-tasking splits your focus, reduces the energy denoted to any single-task and sometimes leads toward loss for word and acts.
Stop promoting Individualism
Try to eliminate "I" from your thinking, writing, and speaking. We all use "I" quite frequently, but it’s better to use "we" instead of "I". This will lead you towards team work and will definitely improve your performance.
Be hard working
Always be a hark worker. This will definitely help you to develop and maintain personal growth. Let me assure that once you develop the habit of hard working, then every difficult task will become easy for you, and you will have no problem to accomplish it successfully.
Learn from difficult situations
Learn lessen from all those situations that have caused difficulties for you. This way you will be able to avoid such circumstances to recur and will be able to handle them effectively and efficiently.
Don’t rely on opinions
It is good to have opinions, but never rely on them. Develop abilities to resolve the issue yourself. Relying on opinions spoils your decision-making us you do not decide for yourself, which essential for personal growth. Do use opinions, but never rely on them all the time.
Leave, what you can’t accomplish
If you come across a situation where you feel that it is almost impossible for you to get out of it successfully then it is better to walk away from it. Instead of wasting time and energy one should simply leave it.
Follow your path, not your plan
Mostly we only rely and work for the plan we have set but we do not pay any attention towards the path to achieve that plan.
So you should follow the path that will lead to your plan. Plans are clear, definite and designed to eliminate uncertainly.
To follow the path is to be open to discovery, to the sudden turns that yield joy, insight and challenge. But to really follow a path requires courage and a willingness to give up certainly.
Hear, what is being said
Normally, we don’t hear to the points that we don’t want to hear or do not like to hear.
This way you loose an opportunity to learn something good. So try to change this fatal habit, which is common in almost all of us.
These were some useful tips that can play a very important role in your personality development.
Here are some words that play a negative role and limit your success. So try to eliminate them from your life.
+ "when I"
+ "If I can do this, then that will happen
+ it "should"
Well it should, but will it???
+ I "could"
Ok, but will you???
+ If I could…..
Well, it is not that easy.
+ Done Deal…..
Remember, it is not really done until and unless the product is delivered..
+ we were very close…..
Close to what, reality or dream?
+ If you just support me..…
Support yourself, don’t rely on others
+ No one can understand what I an trying to…..
Well, do you know what you are doing?